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Postby saw'dsoldier » Apr 29th, '06, 19:48

hey, i know this is really stupid of me. but i need advice on Relationships. i know its really dumb. but i just don't know what to do!!! here's my problem: this one guy liked me...and i really liked him too but we never went out because we're really close as friends. so we decided its best that we don't status as Boyfriend and Girlfriend but just stay close friends....but the problem is that even tho we didn't go out because we're too close to risk what we have...things seem so awkward between us and i feel like it doesn't make a different whether we went out or not...cuz we barely talk anymore and i think i still have feelings for him...what shall i do? :( :loudcry:
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Postby saw'dsoldier » Apr 29th, '06, 19:58

thats a really good idea...but what if he says no... because i like him, it'll really hurt me if he says no. :'( and if he does say no..its gonna break our connection for sure! :confusion:
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Postby MuNxMuN » Apr 29th, '06, 20:00

but like you said he likes you so it'll probably be a yes......you never know unless you try ;)
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Postby saw'dsoldier » Apr 29th, '06, 20:21

awwww mannnn thanks guys!!!! :D u guys are sooo good with advice :D :worship:
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Postby Carnage™ » Apr 29th, '06, 22:32

Shit like this happens all the time. Nothing really to worry about. It'll most likely pass. The best advice I could give is to look at the situation at hand and not the people or feelings involved. Are you just doing this because he sort of feels out of reach now that you don't talk? Can you REALLY see you and him being in a relationship? Are these feelings real, or just a substitute because you're looking for happyness due to depression because of something bad happening in your life? The amount of questions there are is practically endless. Like I said, situation at hand, forget about people, and feelings. Be logical.
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Postby BLAHBLAHBLAH » Apr 30th, '06, 05:02

what ever you do don't write him a note telling him you like him more as a friend, and that you just had to tell him, but that you hope it isn't akward, beacause it WILL be. this is all i have to tell you cause it's the only experience i've got with boys.
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